1/19/08

Another Update

Another amazing (and only slightly edited) update - this will likely be the last as our friends will be moving on to the next leg of their trip today. Many, many warm, happy and anticipatory tears for me this morning. That's it for any last remaining shreds of emotional caution - my heart is yanked out and now held by this precious little girl... our daughter!



Ed and Vonda,

I hope my descriptions aren't going overboard, as a mother, I know you would like to hear every detail.

We went to morning chapel today, there were about 20 women as well as four little girls, one of which was Eva. She had on an orange velvet dress with some gold embroidery. She also had a barrette right in the center of her bangs. She watched us closely, I am sure she remembered we are the people who gave her the gifts from you. She was great during chapel. She sat on the floor next to a couple of older girls, maybe around 10 years of age. She rested her head on them. She was very quiet. After about 15 minutes, she began to move around a little bit, she would play peek a boo with us using the caregivers' dresses. Then she would occasionally wipe her nose on their dress! Just like any other 3 year old. She looked very beautiful in her dress. Chapel was beautiful. There was a lot of singing in their language. It sounded like one hundred Angels singing rather than a 20 women. The Chapel was very nice as well, with beautiful statues and stained glass. While the caregivers took communion, Eva walked right up front and stood by the Alter, watching the priest hand it out. Eva seemed very comfortable there. (Much better behaved than [our daughter] (also 3) is at Church). :)

After a while, Eva came over and sat by us in Chapel, she handed us the hymn books and looked in them like she was reading them and singing.

After Chapel, we went up to her classroom. There were about 8 children in there. They were all fascinated by our video and digital camera. We got a lot of photos and video. Eva seemed to really like Shawn. She sat on his lap and loved looking at the video buttons. All of the children kept saying [Eva's beautiful middle name] as we re-watched the footage of her. She laughed and smiled. She also held [our son] and kept giving him kisses. None of the caregivers in the room spoke English so we were unable to communicate with her with words.

We were told by one of the social workers yesterday that she always has her duck purse on. She doesn't want anyone else to hold it, and she always carries the picture of her parents inside of it, looking at it and showing it to others.

You will be so blessed when you meet her, she is a beautiful, energetic, and happy little girl. She seemed well cared for and very happy with her people around her.

We will continue to keep you updated. We will also have you over soon to show you the photos and the video we took of her. I hope [our son] and Eva can be good friends.

15 comments:

Anonymous said...

Oh Vonda! What wonderful news! Dad and I just read it together and we share your tears of delight. We will see you very shortly. Just getting ourselves together. Our hearts are reaching across the world this morning in a very special way and how great that there will be a little boy over here that Eva will know from where she is. Love, Mom and Dad

Anonymous said...

Such precious news.... I love the details about her attatchment to her duck purse and the picture it contains. Love you guys -rejoicing and praying with you.
-Amy

Bren said...

She is so ready for you both! How amazing!

FamilyGus said...

Vonda & Ed, this is so exciting. I was deeply touched by it. It is so special. Karlie is 3 so Eva has a cousin her age too.

Shandy said...

Oh Bless you! Know that our hearts, Shannon and mine both, are hoping, anticipating and wondering at the gift God is preparing for you! What a wonder is the generosity of God!

Anonymous said...

Oh Happy Day!!!! I can't get over the detail that your friend was able to describe telling you about your sweet Eva. That is too precious for words. Thank you for sharing.

love you

Swirlingeddy said...

Near tears here in the chalet.

How unmeasurable has been the gift of being able to get to know and love her the way we have, even before meeting her in person! McF's, your detailed and observant descriptions are more delightful to us than you can imagine. Well, actually, maybe you can imagine. Thanks for doing it.

I'm with you, V - head over heels.

Kara Jo said...

Oh, what precious gifts these updates are!

-V- said...

Ed - picked out wall colors at Sherwin Williams today. 1 orange wall (tasteful orange).... the other 3 'Sassy Green'. I know... everyone said it shouldn't be done. But, too bad. I've been left to my own devices and I'm takin' a ride on the wild side. You'll love it! :-)

LadyD said...

Go for the color V !!!! You can never have enough color~ Mikayla's walls are orange on the bottom half all the way around her room, and the whole top half is bright yellow! She loves it- As I know Eva will love her Vibrant room! It will be way better than pink- They seem to grow out of that- No offense to the "Pink" lovers in the group~L.

Katie R. said...

What a gift. Another amazing glimpse. I'm so very happy you are able to receive these updates. Yeah!

Anushka said...

DEAR ONES... THE 5TH PARAGRAPH OF YOUR BLOG... UNBELIEVABLY BEAUTIFUL!!! God knits hearts together from either side of this earth. sweet kisses to Eva - and heartfelt prayers for a unified family. Can't wait to see Eva's room - (mommy designers are the most intuitive! )

Pam said...

Fun to hear more of Eva.

I am glad to see your going bold and "sassy" with the room colors. It will be such a happy place to be.

erin said...

I finally just had the time to read this.
How WONDERFUL!
I love that in every description we read of her, she's wearing really bright colors.
Too cool.
Also, there ain't nothin' wrong with an orange (and green) room!

TheKupkaFamily said...

Wow! How exciting. I am so excited for the two of you. I can't wait to see the room. I know she is going to love it!!