12/9/08

The Weight of Good

Today: the day we've been waiting for. For 3+ years in one way, for 12 years in another way... for what has seemed to us a very, very, very long time. Today, in a court hearing to finalize Eva's adoption, legally conveyed on Eva were all rights and benefits of a daughter born to us. And on us, all the responsibilities of a birth parent.

Of course, we needed no court to tell us she is our daughter, or we her parents; our hearts tell us these things. But there is a beautiful finality in having this good, right, God-ordained relationship recognized also by the laws and government of our land.

There is a certain weight to the best gifts God gives us. Like holding a piece of jewelry that is truly gold - or a vase that is truly crystal. You know that it represents something true and valuable. In its earthly endurance, it hints at something of eternity; something that is truly lasting. All of us have received such gifts, perhaps in different measures.

What astounds me is the ordinariness of the days in which these gifts pass into our hands. Today is just a Tuesday. Just another 24 hour period in temporary earthly lives that could maybe last 70 years or so. But gifts like these spark the mundane like sunlight on a breeze-swept lake. What an amazing paradox God has created - that things which speak of eternity enter in so naturally here, bringing joy and hope to a temporary world. Still, the gift of this child: only a glimpse of the weight of His greatest Gift.

Jesus: the weightiest gift of eternity bestowed on those who, in body, are perishing. And the day of His birth - was it an ordinary Tuesday? - another 24 hour period. But how long, how long, had the world awaited His coming. And how long we wait still - for the fulfillment of that coming. It makes me look harder, watch more intently. Eternity will reach again into this dying place. (Actually, He dwells here among us even now - God in our place). May all of us be ready and reaching back. Come, Lord Jesus.

12 comments:

Anonymous said...

Congratulations Vonda, Ed and Eva!
We are so happy for all of you.

I will remember this day forever as it is also Curtis' 13th birthday. Today, both Kavya and Curtis are 13, but not for long.
Tomorrow, Kavya turns 14! Yikes.
We love you,
hugs from the Guhl's

Bria said...

I am so happy for you guys! What a special and wonderful regular Tuesday.

Willow and Sprout said...

Love you guys so much! I'm happy the law now recognizes what we all know has been there for quite some time. We praise him for all he has done!

Emunah said...

So many hopes and prayers culminated in this day...Congratulations. I feel so blessed to be part of your lives, and I love seeing both of you as parents. What a gifted writer you are as well.

Anonymous said...

Yes, what special words you share of our waiting! And what a special day we were able to share with you to culminate our waiting for little Eva! Thank-you for letting us be a part of that celebration in your lives. It is so wonderful to love our little grand-daughter and to feel so loved in return. Thanks kids! Grandma and Grandpa.

Pam said...

Congratulations!

The past few months have seen your many prayers, hopes, and dreams come full circle.

May God continue to bless this journey. We are so happy for this finalization.

Kara Jo said...

Getting teary eyed again as I read your post. Many congratulations!!! This day has been long awaited.

And now, I can't resist asking the obnoxious question that every new parent hears..."So, when's the next one coming?"

LS said...

Mega Congrats on this incredible milestone! It's fun to read about your adventures of parenting a toddler! One time Ali got into a new jar of Baby Vapor Rub and we had no idea where it all ended up. We found it later all over our walls and rubbed into the wicker basket full of kid's books!

Ben said...

Thanks for your words and enriching thoughts about our stance as people who anticipate. We lean forward toward Jesus' coming. We have a core that yearns for the coming of our bridegroom! May it be so among us this Christmas. May we convey that longing in our celebrating. Blessings to you three this Christmas.

NoOtherName said...

Yippee! Yippee!!
Ed and Vonda and Eva make three!!!

We heart you guys forever.

Anonymous said...

Vonda, I JUST found your blog when I was perusing your facebook site! And congratulations on your beautiful girl and the legalities! :)

Anonymous said...

I mean, and finalizing all the legalities!
;)